Q&A with the Whity Wife
When is your engagement anniversary?:
February 28 2009
When is your marriage anniversary?:
May 29 2010
How long have you known your spouse?:
We met my first weekend in college. We became good friends a few months later.
How long did you date/court before you were engaged?:
Less than a year. Say, April Fools 2008- the end of February 2009
Where did you meet your spouse for the first time?:
Chorale. Our university's choir group. We were on a retreat to get to know eachother
Do you have any children?:
Do you have any house pets?:
Yes, he is our child. Remy. Pictures of him are all over this blog!
Do you own a house or rent?:
Rent, and will for another year or so. (even though all i really want right now is to have a house with a fenced in yard!)
What is one of your favorite activities to do together?:
We have little time, and even littler money-so watching movies on the couch
Do you have a favorite vacation spot?:
Greece! This was where we fell in love, and where we realized it was right to marry. 2 very important trips for our lives!
How many siblings (including in-laws) do you have?:
1 just a brother-in-law for me
What church do you attend?:
Is this the church you were married in?:
We were married in a differnt city outside in the historic fort where I grew up
Where did you go on your honeymoon?:
Jamacia! We went to an all inclusive Couples Resort (Negril) I recommend everyone goes there!
Who drives when you go out together?:
Hubby would prefer to, but until last week I had the better car, and I did most of the time. Will his new car, he will always be the one to drive!
How long have you been together?:
Apil 2008- so almost 3 years
Who asked who out?:
Neither, he had a concussion, and I never left his side as he spent days in the hospital recovering both in Greece and State Side.
How old are each of you?:
I'm 22, and he will be 24 this month!
Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?:
opposite work schedules, it sucks!
Who is smarter?:
by far and away he is. I cannot compete!
Where do you eat out most as a couple?:
We never do! I guess chipolte, but our favorite place is the Haughbrough House (It's just too expensive for us to go there)
Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?:
Greece and Italy
Who has the craziest exes?:
HE DOES! Although, to be far, I guess I do have one or two myself
Who has the worse temper?:
Who does the cooking?
Almost always me, but he can!
Who is more social?:
Right now, I am the one who actually knows a few people- but in real life he is
Who is the neat-freak?:
HE IS! I had no idea how neat he was until now!
Who is the more stubborn?:
I would say both, but truthfully it's me
Who wakes up earlier?:
Me most days
Where was your first date?:
he doesn't remember it but i consider it to be a walk on the pier in Volos, Greece. The first time he remembers was a week later in a little Italian restaurant in the middle of nowhere where we went to school.
Do you get flowers often?:
I have gotten flowers twice. They just are not the worth the investment
How long did it take to get serious?:
I said that I did not want to be serious from the get go. He was going to be studying in Ecuador, then China. But it was only a few months into dating that we knew this was it for us (if we could make it through the 6 months of long distance!)
Who eats more?:
We both eat more than needed. We love food!
Who does the laundry?:
I have done all of the laundry since before we got married- even when we lived in separate apartments
Leave a piece of advice for the other couples:
Recognize your selfishness and actively work to change it. No one is perfect, but we can all be better for the one we love.