I don't understand. My single friends feel attacked because so many people treat them as lepers because they are not married nor dating someone. I believe this is coming from the fact that they work in the church.
However, this is the same church that does not support married couples under the age of 25! My church (which I love, and support- but we are people, thus have faults) has started a new series. The church is encouraging everyone to get in a small group to really make this go further. I stopped by the sign up station today to find a group that could work for Hubby and I. So what did I find..... nothing. There were two groups for couples under the age of 35. But most of those people are in their thirties and have kids. Very different from a 22 year old newly wed. The third group really caught me off guard as it read "25-35 couples". I am officially not old enough to join a small group. Nor is my Husband. Why are so many things so clearly defined by age.
Where do young adults go. I am done with college and yet, the only people I can seem to be able to get together with are those in college. I am married, the big issues that come up in my life, and different than those in their 3rd year of undergrad. I wish I could find a welcoming place for the young and the married.